I’ve had someone lie to me about everything except for what could be proven on their Driver’s License. They lied about the number of children they had, their marital status, their whereabouts when I wasn’t around, etc. They lied about everything. They lied about where they resided and why it was best that I didn’t go there due to nosey neighbors when in reality it was because his WIFE lived there. The same WIFE that he was going through a nasty divorce with, the same WIFE he had been estranged from before we met and they had no dealings besides their children, the same WIFE who he claimed had moved on and had a boyfriend, the same WIFE who he claimed knew of me. All lies.

You can guess how that story goes…All the way left. My initial feeling was hurt. My current feeling is hurt. Not because I want to be with this person but because I gave every ounce of my being to this person while never getting anything of what I gave in return. Trust never had to be questioned. Loyalty never had to be questioned. Understanding never had to be questioned. If he said it, I believed it. Even when I did have doubt, he would lie and I would just believe that he was telling me the truth. I spent money on this person without him having to ask. I bought his children Christmas gifts. The same children I had never met because “It wasn’t the right time.” All lies.

Please trust your discernment. When I look back all the signs and the clues were there. A real man/woman will never leave a space for doubt to grow. You will KNOW where you stand. Pray about it and watch GOD reveal. You may ignore it but trust me it will only be a harder pill to swallow later.

Until next time…

-Alex